The Key to Relationships When You Have Depression

Earlier on in our relationship, I pulled Kevin aside when we had a moment alone together in the kitchen. Friends were over. “I need you to be extra touchy-feely, babe. Can you rub me on the back and check in to see how I’m doing? You do already do those things but I’m feeling anxious and I need them a bit more than usual tonight.” “Sure, boo,” he said. My anxiety was at about a level 8ish. (How does one even measure feelings, anyway?) These are the things that are good to relay to your partne

So You're Thinking About Seeing a Therapist: Tips for Therapy Newbies

Finding a therapist is a daunting task. Heck, thinking about starting therapy can be scary and that fear keeps a lot of people from giving it a try. As someone who has been to a motley of therapists over the past twenty years, I can tell you that therapy is scary and uncomfortable; it’s in the discomfort that opportunities for growth are born and realizations are made. Doing therapeutic work is an investment with positive returns that will last your lifetime but you can’t expect that any thera

King Youngblood Reigns with Art & Activism: Gypsy Temple’s Cameron Lavi-Jones, Interviewed

Good things come to those who persist and work hard, and that’s absolutely the case with Seattle alt-rock band Gypsy Temple’s debut album, King Youngblood. Frontman Cameron Lavi-Jones has spent the last ten years working on the album, an exceptional display of persistence considering he’s just 20 years old. The band’s 11-song record is a sonic amalgam of 90s alt-rock nostalgia, with hard-hitting head bangers like “Heavy Handed” and “Forget About It” (think Alice in Chains and Rage Against the M